Saturday, July 7, 2012

Here Comes The Sun (signs) - Romance, Astrology and You (Part Two)

Earth Signs

In the first part, I talked about how astrology can determine how to act and react in romantic situations. We also covered the fire signs. earth signs are physical and have to do primarily with materials business. They are natural and their feet tend to be firmly on the ground, "earth" types. The hallmark of earth signs is practicality.

TAURUS - (April 21-May 21) Taurus is ruled by Venus and its symbol is the bull. Taurus is an Earth sign, which is connected with fruitfulness and stability. She loves the luxury and comfort as sensual silk satin sheets, clothes suitable for a king or queen and beautiful surroundings. Are you looking for comfort, safety and beauty. A perfect novel for you is one that is harmonious and beautiful, if somewhat 'materialistic. Because of your passion for beautiful things, you proudly display your wealth and purchasing power. You are easygoing, quiet and comfortable to be around. You enjoy sharing "quiet times" with your love interest and even get excited everyday activities such as shopping and cooking and dining. You tend to be stubborn and will do everything possible to get what you want. When it comes to showering affection for the object of your desire, you enjoy physical contact. You have a very sensual nature and appreciate the pleasures of food, art, music, scents, caresses, or sex. Because you appreciate nature, a walk in the woods, hiking and mountain climbing can be considered exciting dates. You also love sunsets camping, gardening and just being outdoors and may be attracted to those who are still with your feet on the floor and outdoor activities. As long as your partner or mate displays the qualities of loyalty and honesty as we can possess, have your undying loyalty and a relationship to last.

VIRGO - (August 23 to September 22) Virgo is ruled by Mercury and is symbolized by the Virgin. As an Earth sign, Virgo is connected with material things and practicality. Ultimate Organizer, you gravitate toward anything that makes your analytical mind to use. For the world outside you may seem reserved and tend to hold back your emotions when it comes to love, it's no holds barred for the loving Virgo. You can show great attention to detail that can be considered good luck or a curse when it comes to relationships. Are you good to remember the wishes of your partner (even those that were mentioned only in passing) and love to meet those desires. To you, organizing the object of your affection is considered "flirting." Your favorite role is to help and be of service to friends and partners. You are witty, perceptive and logical. Your reasoning powers to help resolve conflicts quickly and easily take the novel to new depths. You need a partner that will help you loosen your cautious nature so. Are you a good listener and communicator, an important aspect in the novel. You love stories "over your partner and can sometimes be seen as critical. Your partner should know though that if you were not interested, you would work hard to help your love interest be" all he or she can to be. "Health is of great interest to you and work hard to take care of yourself. You want to please and when it comes to love you fall hard. Virgos are most attracted to those who keep fit.

Capricorn - (December 22 to January 20) Capricorn is ruled by Saturn and is symbolized by the sea goat. As an Earth sign, Capricorn is motivated, determined and sets practical goals. Taking unnecessary risks is not your "thing", even in the area of romance. You are ambitious and responsible. You can still do "anything" to get what you want. social status, reputation, position, and career are important to you. You can use these to impress and attract the object of your desires. When it comes to love, no silly game for you, you prefer a more mature approach to courtship. Glamour and dazzle are more your style - so an evening that begins with a limousine would be perfect. Should reliable, good quality in any relationship. Security, a good home, and the finer things in life are what they seek. Not avoid commitment, until it is the right person - in fact you "play for keeps" and will be forever faithful. Some may consider that a loner, but do not be fooled by the far Capricorn. You desire a deep and meaningful relationship with just the right partner. Capricorn can be so potent in the bedroom as they are in the boardroom, so lovers careful. Were viewed by peers as a "winner" and often attract the same. When it comes to romance, there are practical and a romantic getaway so perfect you could include both work and play.

© 2005 Taken from the book, Romance on a budget - www.romanceonabudget.net.

Friday, July 6, 2012

Feng Shui and Romance - Using the ancient art to Improve Your Romantic Space

"If your love life need a quick boost, you can use the art of placement to produce the romantic results you desire." Heidi Richards

Feng Shui (pronounced Fung shway) is the ancient Asian practice of object arrangement and space planning designed to bring balance, harmony and prosperity for your environment. Its purpose is to enhance prosperity, creativity, health and romance. Feng Shui fortifies a home with positive energy known as chi. Achieving positive who is both an art and a blessing for those who obviously. The word "feng" means wind and "shui" means water, each associated with a good harvest and ultimate good health or good fortune.

If your love life needs a quick boost, you can use the art of placement to produce the romantic results you desire. The reports need the right environment to grow. They need to balance the five elements, too much or too little will find the romance wither. Here are some Feng Shui tips to enhance your romantic space:

1. The first thing you need to do is to take confusion out of your romance area (generally this is the bedroom). This means that you must remove trash, dirty ashtrays, dead plants and nothing should be stored under the bed. Dust and cobwebs on the fans, walls, chandeliers and ceilings must be cleaned away.

2. Enhance your space with romantic colors like shades of pink, red and white. Guys, this does not mean to be female. You can use brown, gray tones of pink and white to achieve the same results. The key is to not use a color so that overpowers the other. Other good colors are brown, beige, lavender, yellows and deeper shades of those are appropriate.

3. If you keep flowers in the room (a great way to attract romance in your life), make sure they are always fresh. At the first sign of wilting, toss them away. Silk flowers are an okay alternative, provided free of dust. Absolutely no dried flowers as mean death. Also, make sure the roses are de-thorned. Nothing like thorny cactus, unless your goal is to break-up.

4. In Feng Shui an alter relations stimulates a positive report. Designate a special place in your romance area in which to place the elements that encourage a healthy loving relationship. What to include in your altar report may include a heart shaped rose quartz crystal, a pair of candles, mandarin ducks.

5. Use the principle Pairs to encourage love. That means two candles, two nightstands, two lights on top, two potted plants, two pillows, two chairs, etc. The Chinese symbol for love is Mandarin ducks. Mean love, romance, fidelity, affection and loyalty in love.

6. The bed should be placed in command of the room. This is to allow the widest possible visibility. The door or entry hall must be easily visible from the bed. The head of bed should be against a wall or against a corner. If you have nightstands, make sure you are on both sides (a pair) and that the bed is accessible from three sides to attract and keep a partner. The bed should not be placed under a window.

7. The bedroom is for sleeping and intimacy. No one should enter into your room without your invitation. There should be no distractions such as workout equipment, a television, things that remind you of work.

8. It 'good to hang pink (heart-shaped) crystals and wind chimes in a sunny window to attract good love energy (yang).

Nine. Pictures of her as a child, your children or other relatives should be removed from the bedroom or romance area. This space should be reserved for couples and should only display pictures of you two.

10. dim lights give the room a warm, cozy feeling. No harsh fluorescent lighting or high power here.
Although this is not the ultimate guide to Feng Shui for Romance, is a good start. These ten tips will give your relationship area the boost it deserves and your romance the fulfillment it requires. Altar your space and altar your love life.


© 2005 Taken from the book, Romance on a budget - www.romanceonabudget.net.

Thursday, July 5, 2012

Your intuition and romance - Using all six senses to be more romantic

"Knowing what your partner wants and needs is your sixth sense or intuition at work." - Heidi Richards

Call it intuition. Call it ESP. We all have and can use it to create a lasting romantic relationship. When our sixth sense is in full gear, it's like one of those timeless moments between two people if only the world matters and no one else exists. I'm not talking about sex here. I'm talking about when two people connect at a level beyond the physical. Let me explain. I've been married for 16 years a good man, was a good father and good provider. In fact, we have rarely had conflicts in our lives. For some women who may be sufficient. Yet something was missing from our relationship. He simply does not "get" me. Even after 16 + years of marriage, he does not really know what I liked or what made me tick. It was inevitable that we would be together forever.

Then I met a man I've been with for nearly 14 years. It was as if he knew instinctively what I liked to him without me saying. Seldom a day goes by when one of us does not Each Other calls and talk to other WAS actually thinking something, or go to the store and buy dinner (just what the other was a desire not verbalize That craving). We tease each other about how to live is our sixth sense at certain times. I find it very romantic. I call it a shortcut to something more and more physical senses are able to distinguish.

As for the other five senses? How do we know that the only meaning we should focus on? If they work to create the kind of romance appreciates your partner think you have what it takes to increase the power of your sixth sense, far beyond touch, taste, sight, smell and sound. Here are some tips for using all six senses to be more romantic (based on the novel book on a budget - www.romanceonabudget.net):

View

Look in my eyes (# 11) - When you gaze into my eyes, everyone else seems to disappear. And looking intensely at one another can send a message to your partner that may lead to better things.

Sound

Play ... (# 37) - Want to know a secret? Being a good listener is an art. Some people are naturally good listeners, others need practice. When you really listen to each other shows that you care about what they are saying. And 'communication skills more important in a relationship of long-term success. If you really want to know your partner's likes and dislikes, needs and desires, perfect the art of listening.

Taste

Hungry for love (# 120) - Visit a local fruit or vegetable grove together and choose your own. Take your goodies home and cook up something wonderful, then feed it to each other. MMMMMM ... Well!

Smell

The scent of you (# 46) Spray your perfume or cologne on the phone most often used by your partner. Or all mobile home. This will surely be counter calcium novel about a few notches. It is especially effective if you're going out of town.

Touch

Touch me in the morning (# 115) - ... in the afternoon, evening. Give your partner a massage. Buy some scented massage oils and watch the voltage when the pleasure. Take turns.

Intuition

A Hard Day's Night (# 30) - After a hard day, surprise your partner with a hot bath ready and waiting. The light in the bathroom with candles and yummy scents. After bathing and drying out your partners, the performance / her to your boudoir with candlelight, where the bed is ready with satin sheets and rose petals and soft music is playing. This is where you will proceed to rub her body down with scented body massage oil. After working up an appetite, have a romantic dinner ready, waiting to be served.

Develop and use all six senses in the romance can create a connection that goes deeper - to our souls. Knowing what your partner wants and needs is your sixth sense or intuition at work. When you develop a sixth sense in the novel you know instinctively that the other five to be used when and in what combination to use.

© 2005 Taken from the book, Romance on a budget - www.romanceonabudget.net.

Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Calendar Romance - Romance Is not for your holidays and special events

Oh, I need romance babe, I hope you know it's true. I hope you need romance babe, just like me ... also

Okay, not exactly the text of the Beatles song, Eight Days a Week, but it is true (for most of us, that is). And just like the lyrics, "Eight days a week, it is enough to show I care ..." Romance is not reserved for holidays and special days, is the wise person who is romantic on a daily basis. And be romantic every day of the week is not so difficult. It just takes a bit 'vision and imagination. I call it planned spontaneity. And let's face it, sometimes we need a little help to add more romance to our relationship.

The Calendar is where Romance comes into play look at the calendar. What day is today? And 'Relaxation Day - the perfect day for you and your love to sit around the house and read a newspaper or a movie marathon? And what's more romantic than a day different port? What could you do today to make a difference in your love life? Why not volunteer for a special cause together. Have a cause you feel strongly about both and believe in a safe way to deepen your report. These are just two ideas to show how much you care about one another. There are other 363 days to be romantic. Use the calendar to help you plan Romance more of those special days.

January
January has many great days to celebrate with your love. They include: Raising the Heat Day (January 5), Show and Tell Day (January 8) Thank You Day (January 11), Send a hug Day (January 21) and Compliment Day ((January 26th).

February
February may be a month short, but full of love. Besides Valentine's Day (February 14) is also Chocolate Day (February 12), Dream of your better half day (February 13), Cuddle Day (February 25) and Romance on a Budget Day (February 28)

March
March on over to celebrate your love and share a Smile Day (1 March), his call on the phone Day (March 10) Lips Appreciation Day (March 16) Flower Day (March 21), and Make up your holiday Day (March 26).

April
April showers may bring May flowers, and is also the month to celebrate the Great Lover's Day (April 2) Stories Day (April 10), and Kiss Day (April 28).

May
May is Creative Beginnings Month. Not a day you (May. 1) Naked Day (May. 4th), Slow Down Day (May. 5th), Tulip Day (May. 13), Poetry and Day (May 21).

June
In June we celebrate the flower of love - the Rose. We also celebrate Join Hands Day (1st Saturday), Sneak a Kiss Day (June 15) National Splurge Day (June 18), and chocolate pudding Day (June 26).

July
Did you know that July is National Doghouse Repairs Month? Special days include Carnation Day and Independence Day (July 4), Get Out of the Doghouse Day (3rd Monday) and Ice Cream Day (July 21).

August
August is the perfect month to admit You're Happy. It 'also a time to celebrate friendship Day (1st Sunday), Champagne Day (August 4) Relaxation Day (August 15), Kiss and Makeup Day (August 25) and make your own luck Day (August 26 ).

September
Sweet September is a month to celebrate National Honey Month. You can also celebrate International Chocolate Day (September 13), Born to Be Wild Day (September 15) and even Enquiry Silly Day (September 30).

October
Beer and Pretzels certainly go hand in hand when it celebrates Oktoberfest Pretzel Month and all. It 'also a time to celebrate World Smile Day (October 5). Bring Your Teddy Bear to Work Day (2nd Monday) sweetest day (third Sunday) and make a difference day (Saturday 4)

November
In November we have a lot to be thankful for. In addition to Thanksgiving (4th Thursday), we men make dinner day (1st Thursday), and then there's Sadie Hawkins Day-ask your men out of women - (1st Saturday), World Kindness Day (13 September) and the World "Hello" Day (Nov. 21).

December
December celebrations around the world. In addition to Hanukkah, Christmas, and Kwanza, there are many other special days. If you need more off-the-wall reasons to celebrate imagine bathtub Party Day (December 5) Personal Passion Day (9 December), Make Up Your Mind Day (December 31), because then everything starts several times .

© 2005 Taken from the book, Romance on a budget - www.romanceonabudget.net.

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

Romance On A Budget Cheap Thrills can lead to a life full of love.

Romance is not about spending money, it's being together, spending energy and creativity to attract and keep the love alive and exciting relationships. - Heidi Richards

Romance is not about how much money you lavish on another. These attract the object of your affection. Romance is to make the dreams and fantasies become reality. Romance is defined as "an exciting and mysterious quality, a relationship between two lovers." It 's the "act of making your partner feel loved." Romance is more than an act, is a state of being. It 's the heart, soul and mind work together to create an adventure, and enthusiasm to enhance one another.

"Romance means intimacy and connection, which means paying attention to detail. He is making his dinner or give him a massage. And 'making the bed together and cuddling. They were holding hands and leaving little notes" love "around the house. And 'touching and feeling and listening and sharing. And' the excitement and serenity, spontaneity and planning. And to think that the other person what you want, and do things the other person likes. And 'connect deeply.

Romance is about timing, imagination, exploration and creativity. Being romantic is about .... be creative, be prepared to take a risk. Sometimes it's being sweet. Sometimes it's being stupid. Romance is about ... the right attitude. And attitude can cost little or a lot. true romantics have the right attitude, and use our imagination to cultivate love, sensual relationships.

So just how do you develop the right attitude? Start with small gestures of affection, the little things to show care and can be romantic. Here are some suggestions (from the book, Romance on a budget) to help spark your imagination.

♥ This Kiss (# 10) - You must remember this: A kiss is still a kiss ... a kiss often. Repeat several times.

♥ Look into my eyes (# 11) - When you gaze into my eyes, everyone else seems to disappear. And looking intensely at one another can send a message to your lover that may lead to other things.

♥ You light up my life (# 15) - Spray the perfume or cologne worn over a light bulb. When the light turns on the scent of you fill the room.

♥ What a Feeling (# 19) - Report your love as I appreciate / her. Write your message on a post-it note and stick-which is sure to be found.

♥ out of his Comfort Zone (Intro) - Do something impulsive, a bit 'risky, that excites your lover and turn on the romance.

As the song says "Love Do not Come Easy." I think "Romance Do not Come Easy." But with a little 'practice and planning, the results can be thrillllllllling ....


© 2005 - Taken from the book, Romance on a budget - www.romanceonabudget.net.

Monday, July 2, 2012

Get Blissed!

Elton John, Billy Joel, Phil Collins and Freddie Mercury all have something in common, by a smidge of talent and the fact that they all pop star.

Watch Elton John perform I'm Still Standing or Billy Joel play my life at their pianos, or witness Freddie Mercury We Are The Champions for dissolution or Phil Collins on drums during the In The Air Tonight, and you will witness something magical happening, something that sends shivers down my spine. But what do they do?

There is the same 'something' that caused Bob Geldof to pull all his friends in the music industry together and raise millions for charity back in the eighties with the hit Do They Know ITS Christmas Band Aid and the subsequent appeal. Churchill has been to move the nation with powerful speeches, and all that stands between you and our true greatness.

But what is that 'something'? And it is quite easy to bring into our daily lives?

The answer is yes.

And 'to do with the first principle purpose of life, we all have a unique gift and a distinctive way to express it. The best way for me to explain this to you is to tell a short story.

A year ago I suggested that my son took music lessons with his grandfather. His Pappy is a professional musician, and if you're son is going to be the miracle that all parents hope 'to be, you want them to learn from a professional, is not it, especially if this is a per family member. He took the hint and here is what unfolds.

Nine months after he'd had enough. It seemed hard work. Of course mastery of balance - nothing wrong with your fingers - you could read the notes - nothing wrong with his memory - but he could not sit still in class and in each session of the week between us but never heard him practicing HIM minimal .

(If this sounds like you when you are at work? Play, doing what must be done and no longer able?)

After school he took off not in his room, connected to the keyboard and shocked himself with something new he had learned to do. He never hit the sky, Blissed out, his whole being surprised or excited over a new discovery. It never came to me, shook me from my book and said: "Hear this, Dad. It will blow your mind!"

We concluded that it was not his thing - each his own - and admitted only took her because he thought I'd be happy!

Stephen King once said, "Talent renders meaningless test: when you find something you like you do it until your fingers bleed and his eyes fall head ... every outing is a bravura performance, because you as the creator are happy .

My son and I chatted. We concluded if there is no joy in it, no sense in it, so it is better off spending practices at the keyboard looking for that 'something' else where you can hit so high, the fruits of joy and ensure His life becomes an energetic adventure.

Some of us pretend in life. We will do what we think makes our parents happy. Let's pretend to enjoy work. Let's pretend to be happy, as we sell our soul. Let's pretend to be artistic or creative, but never put grit in it and maybe ... just maybe we drift through life with the thought that there must be something else out there.

But life is an experience - a great talent show for us to show our skills. It 'a stage for us to use our skills for our entertainment and pleasure and the pleasure of those around us.

Life is not a practice for some future event which we hope will only fall from the sky. We make it happen.

Great writers write every day until my eyes fall on their head and their brain is not working, great coach coaches every day, great musicians playing until their fingers bleed. All of them love every single moment of what they do. This is passion. This blissing out. This is happiness. It is being one with your car - be really honest with who you really are.

Remember that you are heroes - great comedians, interviewers, musicians, singers, teachers etc. They have all the happiness in their eyes, hearts and minds when you care about most.

What is not fake another day. You and I came to this earth with a unique and special talent, but why in God's name do not use it for full. Why do spreadsheets and sweep the streets when there is first an artist or a therapist?

Put up brats with customers to call centers or organizing committee for the bazaar WI if that means anything to you, but please do not ever fool yourself about your level of passion and commitment when choosing what to do with your life.

My son did his attitude Blissed out of life as a year for ten years. How old are you?

You made the same commitment to your life again?

Sunday, July 1, 2012

How to Use Eye Contact To make a good impression

Have you ever wondered why some people seem to make friends so easily, while others find it so difficult to create successful relationships with new people?

The study reports that researchers have found that a big difference between those who make friends easily, and those who do not, is that socially successful people tend to make eye contact with their partners more frequently than those who are less successful socially.

Many shy people never make eye contact at all. When talking with others, people who have trouble making friends are more likely to see the land, or look elsewhere. Rarely see the face of the person they're talking about.

If you have been less successful in making friends who you wish, you may be able to become more socially successful by making this simple change to your behavior.

Most Americans, especially Caucasians, prefer to have a lot of eye contact when talking with someone. When a person has eye contact with them, North Americans tend to assume that person is hiding something. The very phrase "shifty eyed" connotes a person whose eyes dart around the room, which means that they are unreliable.

When you are having a conversation with someone and you want to leave a friendly impression, be sure to continue to look at that person frequently while you are talking about. It is not necessary to use a penetrating gaze, a look friendly will do.

If you really care to look directly into the eyes of another person, you can look at the person's face without focusing solely on the eyes. If you look in general in the eyebrow area or the bridge of the nose, this is quite near the region of the eyes that seem to look at the person's eyes. You may find that it eases the discomfort if you let your vision go slightly out of focus.

Whenever you are in conversation with someone, keep most of your focus on the other person. If you look at all the place is too little or too frequently to look at other people, can assume that your conversation partner is bored, or you are looking around for someone else Would Rather Talk.

If you have difficulty in knowing exactly how to make eye contact, you can qualify to practice in front of a mirror, or practice with another person.

Do not watch other people too hard though! A very intense, the unblinking gaze can make your conversation partner feel very uncomfortable.

You can lighten the impression you're doing to smile more often, nodding, and looking at his face and eyes. In addition, you can frequently glance away for brief periods.

When people feel that you are really paying attention to them, and you like talking to them, will be much more likely to want to have conversations with you!