All of us have looked back on past relationships and said, "What was I thinking." The problem is that you were not thinking. You have been involved in the chemistry and wonderful sensations of the moment that you chose to overlook some warning signs that there may be problems ahead. Here is a list of things to look out for when dating:
CELL PHONE USE: There is a new disease in the city. It's called "phoneitis cell." People with this can not be disconnected from their cell phones. They will accept a call 24 / 7. Being out with someone like this can be annoying. It 's almost as if you're not even there. If you start with someone and discover that they have this disease, you can indicate your displeasure - One time only. If they persist, forget them. It 'a rude and disrespectful behavior on their part and we do not tolerate that now that we do?
Driving behavior: If you want to know what is really like someone, a passenger in the car with them. To cite an online school traffic: the stronger the self-image that drivers have, will be less threatened by what happens around them. The identification with one's vehicle is a symptom of a weak ego. Insecure people think everything that happens on the road is a direct threat to them personally. Someone interrupts them, and must react, "Who people think of me to cut out?" The irrational thoughts of insecure people can keep them constantly upset. Damn, this sounds like the kind of person I'd like to date. No!
ME! ME! ME! : I once met a guy who had a track mind. That is, all that was in his mind was himself. He went on and on all his accomplishments. I thought it was finally turning around when he said, enough about me, tell me about you. Before I could get a word out, it was back to his favorite subject! Yup, himself! That total deviation. I think the boys are guilty of this than girls. Sorry. Guys I know that some women will be impressed by what they did, they know, etc. They go on thinking you're getting somewhere (closer to the bedroom?). women are not smart for that. We want to engage in a conversation. If we see a man play, go to the theater!
BOO-HOO-HOO: Do not you just love going out with someone who always complains? Ah yes, the joys of seeing the glass half empty. There is always someone or something wrong that has hurt them. Arrival at their mercy with cheese party for their complaint if you intend to stay. If not, RUN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She's a Psycho / It 's a Jerk: If you believe in the law of attraction (attract / are attracted to what we are), and the person who starts today says that their ex was a psychopath or a jerk, what they do them? You guessed it. It means that you're a psychopath or a jerk? Only if you choose to stay. Just remember, one day will be the psycho jerk or someone else will complain.
Caller Name: I'm surprised at how many people take all this. What is one of the main reasons for being in a relationship? Because your life has increased because of that person to be in it. Does being called a bitch or a loser make life better? I can understand someone saying that you were a bitch or you act bitchy, but the next time someone says "Bitch!" For you, you're only response should be: "You're right. I am a bitch. I am a child in full control of herself" as you walk out the door forever.
ORAL SEX: In all my years of meetings, I just came across a guy who did not want to do oral. In general, girls may have more of a problem with it than boys. In both cases, it is not a good sign, especially if it is important to you. I have a girlfriend whose husband refuses to do so. The poor girl has been relegated to only dream when you sleep. Since that oral sex is an acceptable part of sex in the 21st century, if someone is not willing to participate, of course, have problems. Whether you stick around to see if they are willing to work on those dependent on you, but just keep in mind that this is always a red flag.
Hanging Up: We all hung up on someone or someone had hung over us. However, at some point, you grow up and realize that we can not just go around hanging up on people when we are upset or frustrated with them. The proper way to deal with this situation is to say something like: "I do not want to talk to you now. I'm going to hang up. Bye." If you're finally at this point and someone crashes on you, you might think two times before dating them. There are bound to be published in other maturity involved. However, if you are still hung up on people and someone crashes on you, then stay together. Those of us who have grown up, you need not bother us back on the scene.
Soap opera: this is mostly for boys. Soap operas are the television equivalent of Harlequin romances and as Secret deodorant, they can be "strong enough for a man, but made for a woman." I just do not think the boys have any business watching soap operas (sorry CBS, NBC and ABC) unless you are actually on the show and want to control their "performance".
I LOVE YOU: Anyone professing their "love" within a few weeks or months of meeting was insincere and immature. You have to know someone before you can truly love them. Yet, people are throwing this phrase around to the right and left and before you know, the relationship is over. It 'better to err on the side of caution and take too long to tell you to hurry. Of course there is no need to tell you that scream out for the first time during a moment of "passion" does not count.
There are two things that separate me from almost everyone reading this: the awareness and attitude. I am aware of red flags and the attitude that I do not want to stay once you see them. Now that your awareness has been raised, what will be YOUR attitude?