Release

Some people choose to live life differently than ourselves. This applies to children, adults and people in general. Sometimes this does not always leave a lot of room for compromise especially when it comes to a loved one who chooses a different path. Like any journey, is composed of choice, both positive and negative. Some people choose to live a good life and honest some people choose to be destructive and self-limited their willingness to drive. Regardless, it's their choice and their decision to live as they wish.

What happens if you see someone on the path towards a dead end? Well you can take this as a first step to their attention if they wish for your opinion. But then, I'm really on his own and the only thing you can do is let them discover for themselves the consequences. Sometimes action is needed most by your own especially if they destructive behavior begins to affect their personal well-being. In this case you have two choices, or participate or not.

Perhaps it is considered easier part is that you must address the conflict head on. Many people choose this way of thinking, and suffer the emotional turmoil that comes with it. We can not always get their hands on the strings of others' lives, preventing them from falling to the ground. Sometimes the behavior itself extends much our loved ones dying, because they never reach their bottom and not acknowledge their mistake.

The choice to participate is a very difficult task, requiring great strength and adamancy. You must first tackle the problem affecting the person you address their behavior, and then deal with the action you are going to take alone. Everyone has boundaries, but it is up to us to express them to the person who crossed them. Nobody is a mind reader and also for those who are our interpretations can be misinterpreted. Say what you say and how to follow up, follow through with what you say. This can be very difficult, especially if you do not intend to contact the person.

But in some cases this is the best way to make room for someone they really need to see for themselves where they go and what kind of life they are living. Some "see" and others will spiral downwards in the life choices they made. What is important here is protected, however, that your "self" and your "wealth" being affected by their destructive path and behavior. This does not mean you love them less, it just means that you love them at a safe distance.