10 things you should never say to a guy

Ladies, if you want to have a successful dating life, certain phrases should never leave your lips shiny. Here they are:

1. When will I see? You'll see him when you see it. If you want to see again, he'll call. If not, later. You have no time for anyone who has no time for you.

2. WHY 'did not you call? There is only one answer to this question: Why would not he! What you're really asking is: "Why do not you want to call me?" Who knows! There could be a lot of reasons, but should not be sitting around wondering why. It should be out dating lots of different guys and not worry about one guy. Do not be so quick to put all your eggs in one basket, because if they break, is a mess!

3. Where were you? If he wanted you to know where he was, he told her. What you are really asking is: "Where are you with another woman who you like better?" Your insecurity is showing, dear. If nothing else, should be wondering where they were.

4. I LOVE YOU (FIRST) - You're saying, in the hope that he will say back, but if he does not? You'll be devastated and probably feel foolish. Saying "I love you" is not going to speed things up, if he is not ready to say it again. So just cool, and talk him be the first to say that when it is ready.

5. You slept with her? Until he is in bed with her, who cares? The past is past. Do not torture yourself (and him) with these thoughts. In this case, ignorance really is bliss.

6. I am pregnant. In 2005, with all the choices available to birth control, there is no excuse for becoming pregnant, unless you want to be. You should be using something and he should use a condom every time.

7. Where is this going? Nowhere fast if that is your attitude. Guys want someone fun and easy to be with, not someone who is constantly worrying about the future. His actions or non actions will tell you where it is going. If this is going somewhere, you'll know. If not, will too.

8. We need to talk. This is the equivalent of "go the principal's office." I know you guys will not be 'a fun conversation, so it is already on the defense. If you need to discuss something, just casually bring it up when the two of you are relaxed. Do not try to talk to him when he is tired, stressed or trying to watch TV!

9. I hate you! Even if you do, is totally misplaced and not lady-like. If there is a problem, be mature enough to discuss it when you're calm. If you break up with you, reacting with anger may make you feel better temporarily, but it is better to remain calm and act impassively. He'll wonder why you're so cool about it and that may make him rethink his decision. Always be pleasant during a break up. Want to be known as the girl who goes psycho if someone breaks up with her? I do not think so.

10. I do not TRUST. What you are effectively saying, "You need to step up your game, because I can see six to something." If it is up to something, he'll just become even sneakier. Better to think smart and act dumb-it'll be easier to obtain the evidence required to confirm your suspicions.