Thursday, June 14, 2012

How to have a conversation with a successful woman!

To have a conversation with a successful woman must know what to say and what not to say. Once you've mastered this, your actions or words will never be misinterpreted again.

So why are you talking about the beauty sitting beside you? Perhaps you want a report, a One Night Stand, or just good old "Hot Sex". Well, whatever the reason is that you will use the conversation as a way to approach her. To establish an intimate relationship with her. As explained in my book "The Ultimate Online Dating Handbook" a woman in general to evaluate a report on how well you are referring to a person. This means, as we interact with you and make you feel like himself. And if you want to see it again, it is important for you to get along with her. Talk to her about her likes, her dislikes, her questions, answer your questions and offer your opinions. This will feel like you think she is special enough to launch a real honest conversation with her kindness, and not just playing her. This will feel closer to you. The main objective of this first interview is to build the foundations for a possible relationship with this woman. To become personally involved with her, build her trust in you and get bits of information on her screen.

OK, so what are you looking for information? Have a relationship with this woman will totally depend on whether or not you can get this information. Success or failure here will determine if ever see her again. If you are interested in her and think that you would like to see you make your priority to obtain the following ...

# 1 - His name
When you go to a woman introducing herself to ask her name. So be sure to use your name in the next sentence or two. This will show her you paid attention, and you are interested in her. It will also help yout remember his name, and make sure you heard right.

# 2 - a common denominator
Find a way the two of you can be connected. By this I mean that both have something in common. It could be a mutual friend, the drink itself, something about your surrounding, same brand of watches, nothing that could connect the two of you together. Use this common denominator to relate to her and help her to form a trust in you.

# 3 - Your phone number
This can be a bit 'harder, but before the conversation ends you must ensure that half to get in touch with her. A phone number or an e-mail. Although she took her phone number that you still want to get her well. Be direct when asking for this information. Tell her you'd like to see her take her out. Use simple language and straight forward, eye contact and tell her you like her again.

Let's go back to basics. The fact is that men and women think and speak differently. Men think and talk about the facts. Women think and talk feelings. So if you want to talk successfully to a woman you need to express emotions, telling her how he feels. Generally men are not too good at this. Therefore, the first thing to do in your conversation with her is to listen. Yes, listen. Listen and relate to their conversation. Ask questions about what he is saying. Share your personal experiences to create an intimate bond. Too often people to ramble on about other things leaving the woman feeling bored and ignored. When a man really listens, pays attention to what she is saying and participates in her conversation, you will feel that this man is truly interested in her for her. This will feel really good about yourself. Women are not interested in a guy who only talks about himself, what prank he and his friends pulled. Also has no interest in someone who is just trying to make it to bed. Now, while this maybe your ultimate goal, you should play it cool with any woman until she feels comfortable with you.

In your conversation with the woman he realizes to make sure you're paying attention to her. Use some verbal comments like "uh-huh," "Oh yeah" "Oh, really" or "That's right." Once you feel that you are trying to understand it and want to know her better, she'll be more relaxed with you. How about being careful. Ask questions like "What? How?. But ever wonder why? In this way, put on the defensive. Get some information on her back to earth as you join the conversation. We have grown up in this city / town? Where did she go to school? Did she move here? What brought you here? Show an interest and join the conversation. It is certainly his shot.

Good luck!
Marie Clare

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