Hold em or fold em?

As a great game of poker, knowing when to Hold 'Em "and when" Fold Em "is a great phenomenon to some of us. Our lives and loves are much like a poker game, you start with a pot and slowly over time the benefits or increase or decrease. The choice of Hold 'Em "or" Fold Em "is a choice that can not be made without analyzing the long-term effects.

Certainly, love is not a poker game, but the relationships, like any game of chance is a risk, if not initially take the risk / opportunity that you have missed out on some of the greatest feelings and experiences of your life. The course of a relationship is fairly standard to all, first time you meet, you experience the euphoria and excitement of the unknown, moving into discovering how this friendship all persons inside and what they are today Made Who. Then we moved to the realm of our inner being, and share everything about ourselves. Exposing our fantasies and deepest desires of our hearts left totally vulnerable. This exhibition is not without its rewards, you get closer together and shows great insight into life with this person. However, we must be acutely aware of this persons ideals and goals in life and how they relate to our own. What are you willing to compromise, give or share to create a lasting love relationship? Things to think ... ....

Like a game of high stakes poker, you have much to lose, maybe not physically, but emotionally there is a big price to pay if you lose the game. Being able to identify the obvious and act will protect your heart. Of course, we do not want to admit or believe that someone they love today and I will not be with us tomorrow, but it happens every day all over the world millions of people. Keep your eyes peeled, they are spending less time with you, the calls are less frequent, they do not seem too busy to do all the time, emails have stopped, spend more time with their friends about you. These are signs ... .. read! There might be an explanation for their behavior, not jumping to conclusions do not take the time to talk with them, discover what they are thinking, feeling and discern whether it is time to Hold Em "or" Fold Em ". If it is time to fold ", do so with dignity.

For you men, standing, be a respectable man and tells what is wrong and may or may not be fixed, not clam up on us, as women we need an explanation, SOME kind of reasoning for what happened to let go and move forward. Women, crying will make you feel better, but certainly change the way no one feels at the time and do not call them continually asking them to go back. As cliche 'as it seems "If you love something free, if your back is forever." Be honest about what went wrong and why it feels the need to move on. Great as it may seem, whatever the other person made mistakes with her and can not be made or corrected, if they are not aware of their actions.

Myself, I have a very strong personality and tends to be a little 'arrogant' and bearing at times, and had I not been told that I would continue to sabotage every relationship, trying to control everything on it. Now I know that I share that control and allow the man to be man, we share a life together and survive in a one has to let go "Me, me, me, mine" and look at things from a "we, us, ours is" point of view.

The downside, things happen at times of great strength that leads them away from you, once again the debate is the key. In this case, any problems or feelings may be clarified and we can solve any upcoming problems. Knowing that this has occurred can be resolved amicably between the parties, and the willingness to forgive and work to talk more and be more open telling you to Hold 'Em. "

No amount of words gives you the insight to make the decision to hold 'em "or" Fold Em ", that choice is by knowing what you want out of life and your relationships. Nobody can answer these questions for you, your task is to look inside the box and outside the box and choose whichever is best for you and your future. Never, never, walk before giving the possibility of a relationship, regret is the worst of all emotions, the will to live your life in "I Have, I, I Will" mode and not the "Coulda, woulda, Shoulda, "your life will be much richer and more rewarding in the end.

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