Who should move a long distance relationship?

My Dear Lover,

Sooner or later, you and your beloved will have to take the decision of who should move, because it is very difficult to live apart.

Shift will change your life drastically, you must have loved you and really want from life, you need to communicate, communicate and communicate until you get a very clear understanding about your expectations, your future.

Here are some questions to help you make the decision. You will have to "abandon" your pet? Your love who loved cats, dogs, birds, etc. at home?

Some of you have children? As is well accepted to live together, now as a new family? There are good schools for them in the new place? They like the new place? What about their friends, they accept being apart? May maintain their current activities, such as sports, etc. in the new place?

You are moving away from your family? If you are a type of person who is very close to your family will be very hard not to. stay with them so often. Maybe your parents are old and need your help. You have the right to build your life, your happiness, your love, but I think it is not fair to leave your parents alone most of the time when they most need your help. And if you already have children may live far from their royal family? They are willing to have a new family?

If you are divorced and your ex lives near you, will he accept your new mate? After all that comes from "nowhere", and almost overnight, he is already living with you.Of course you can not leave your ex is the main reason to live your life when you want, and with whomever you want, but if your ex is a type of person who does not agree to have a new partner, you must be prepared for this.

You can live in the new area, possibly for the rest of your life? Like the time? Culture? If you love urban and move to a rural area, you can live with that, or you miss the city life too? If you are a type of person who can adapt very easily to new environments, this is not a problem at all, but if they are not, and decide to move, you will need all the help, understanding and support from your beloved, for more "difficult" stages, be aware that he knows it. Are you sure you know the new area, or you've been there before, just for a couple of weeks holiday romance? Try to know better the new area, if you can spend more time there or not. only when both are on vacation, before moving forever.

God forgive me, but if things do not go well with you and you decide you should conclude the report, after you move, you return to your old home, or who live in the new area? You can live there without the support of family and old friends? It will be a very difficult time for you.

Well, with all these problems, you may seem, this is a very difficult decision to make.It is a big decision that will change your life forever, it must be very clear about your Expectations.

But my most important advice for you is to listen to your heart. True love is so precious and can overcome any difficulty.

Do not measure the distance, measure the Love, Maria Madeira.